If and when you figure out what you are going to do with life there are going to be doubters and hater. You need to take those negative nancy’s and use them as motivation to not give up and prove them wrong when you are doing your thing living the dream. Life is meant to be lived so get out there and live it, no more being stagnant.
It can take quite some time to find your path, but when you do you will know because everything will start to fall into place and it will just feel right. Finding your path may be a shocking experience for you as it may not have been anything you had ever thought about doing. One thing for sure is that once you are on your right path everything begins to feel a lot more natural in ones day-to-day life.
Some people live their entire lives not on their path or even trying to follow their dreams whatever they may be and that’s just sad. I cannot imagine what it would e like to not be following my dreams or doing something fulfilling. I guess I would be full of regrets and definitely have less stories to tell. Once you know what you want from life I hope you figure out some smart goals and take small steps each day towards getting to where you want to be. The best part of doing your own thing is proving all the nay sayers and haters that not only could you do it, but you actually did when you are successful at said thing.